You won the title of Miss Black Missouri, what does it entail?
Miss Black Missouri USA 2018 defines her own measure of beauty within the realm of her talents, mind, academic endeavors and redefines the meaning of colorism!
What do you expect to gain by competing in pageantry?
What I've gained so far is confidence in genuinely loving every part of who I am, every part of who God creates me to be. I can be transparent about the struggles I’ve faced which ultimately helped shape the person the world now sees.
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Tell me something about yourself and your work. What do you actually do, and have done in the past?
Currently, I’m an auto claims adjuster for Farmers Insurance, I write car estimates and pretty much determine whose at fault. Prior to this job I was a social worker for three years, which was an amazing experience helping families reunite and helping children receive permanency in their lives.
Many misses have said that their dream since a child was to participate in a pageant as prestigious as Miss World (or Miss Universe). It this your case ? And if so, why ?
Not at all! I had never wanted to be in a pageant, I was pretty Tom-boyish. It was too girly for me. I was into wrestling shows and jumping off if dressers with my boy cousins. During those times I didn’t think I was as pretty as the girls I seen on t.v.
Social media seem to play a major role in pageantry nowadays. Do you think this is advantageous to you? Why or why not?
I believe it does, there are so many avenues one can take with social media. Social media can be a true blessings if navigated well or it can be your worst enemy as a lot of bullying happens. The positive thing is you determine whether you acknowledge the negativity.
Did you face any moment of disappointment with yourself during the pageant journey, and how did you overcome it?
Yes! I believe that adversity comes with any title. I think this defines if you are able to handle and control your response to life when it tries to knock you down.
We’ve all seen the stereotypical portrayals of pageant contestants, a la Miss Congeniality, spreading peace, love and beauty throughout the world. How do you think you'll make a difference ?
How I’ve already made a difference is I’ve given back to my community through volunteering in homeless shelters, nursing homes, mentoring youth in the urban core, and I’ve broken the cycle known to my family by being the first to become a colleagiate graduate on my mothers side. I am a child of two high school drop outs and I can say I’ve proven that where you come from does not determine where you go and that adversity can be a stepping stone in achieving your goals.
What would you advise any young girl out there who has a dream of being a queen one day?
Don’t stereotype it, if you see something which doesn’t align with who you are, you might just be the change that the pageant community needs. People best respond to people they can relate too and you might just be that person who inspires the next Miss Black USA or even the next president!
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Thanks to the beautiful Ashli for the interview. Pageants News wishes you all the very best for Miss Black USA pageant.